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Ingress Abbey

A Grade II listed Gothic Revival house on the Thames in Greenhithe, Kent, for weddings of up to 100 guests.

Kent, Greenhithe

from £5,000

100 guests

Grade II listed Gothic Revival house on the Thames, 1833

Civil ceremony licence, ceremonies for up to 100 guests

One wedding at a time, so the day is all yours

Gold Room, Red Room, Orangery, Hall, courtyard and gardens

The Coach House sleeps 7, perfect for getting ready

Dry hire 7am to midnight, with your own DJ or band welcome

Business details last verified on 22nd of October 2026 by Ingress Abbey.

Prices & Capacity

Prices

Typical Price: £10,000

Price Range: £5,000 - £20,000

Capacity

Ceremony: 100

Standing: 100

Seated Meal: 100

Accommodation

Sleeps: 7

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About Ingress Abbey

Ingress Abbey is a Grade II listed Gothic Revival house on the banks of the Thames in Greenhithe, Kent. Built in 1833, it has welcomed royal guests, including Queen Elizabeth II. Marry here under our civil ceremony licence with up to 100 guests, then celebrate in the Gold Room, the Red Room, the Orangery, the courtyard and the gardens. The Coach House sleeps 7, ideal for getting ready. We host one wedding at a time, so the day is all yours.

Built in 1833 for James Harmer, Alderman of the City of London, Ingress Abbey has nearly two centuries of history, and Queen Elizabeth II and the Duke of Edinburgh visited in 1962. If you prefer, hold your ceremony elsewhere and bring everyone back to the Abbey to celebrate.

Each space has its own character. The Gold Room, with its chandeliers and gilded mirrors, is perfect for dining and for dancing the evening away. The Red Room, with red damask walls, twin chandeliers and a bay window onto the gardens, is a richly elegant room for your ceremony, a drinks reception or an intimate dinner. The light-filled Orangery is lovely for drinks or dining, and the Hall & Gothic Gallery sits at the heart of the house. Outside, the flagstone courtyard is made for drinks and mingling, and the gardens and lawns offer beautiful backdrops for photographs.

Dine together in the Gold Room for up to 50 guests, or spread through the grand rooms for a relaxed house-party feel. For everyone together, a marquee in the gardens can welcome up to 100 guests, arranged through our circle of specialists at additional cost.

The Coach House sleeps 7 in 3 bedrooms, with a sitting room, dining area and kitchen, for getting ready in the morning and relaxing afterwards.

Venue hire is from £5,000 for 25 guests, plus £200 per additional guest, up to 100 guests (£10,000 for 50, £15,000 for 75, £20,000 for 100). Ingress Abbey is offered on a dry-hire basis. Catering comes through caterers from our approved list, who have use of the commercial kitchen, and you are welcome to bring your own DJ or band. Hire runs from 7am to midnight, and there is parking on site for around 30 cars.

We would love to show you around. Get in touch to arrange a visit.

The Details

Venue Type

Dry Hire Available

Historic

Outdoor / Garden

Unique & Unusual

Country House

Intimate Venue

Manor House

Mansion

Stately home

Type of Ceremony

Civil ceremony licensed

Outdoor Ceremonies

Humanist / Celebrant weddings

Catering Options

Pre-approved Caterers Only

Asian

BBQ / Hog Roasts

Buffet

Caribbean

Halal

Kosher

Vegan

Additional Facilities

Bridal Dressing Room

Onsite car parking

Walled Garden

Bespoke weddings

Dance floor

Discos permitted

Good Disabled Access

Honeymoon suite

Live music permitted

Orangery Or Marquee

Outdoor ceremonies

Champions of

Sustainability

LGBTQIA+ Weddings

Contact & Location

Ingress Abbey

Ingress Abbey, Prioress Crescent, DA9 9UR, Kent, United Kingdom

FAQs

Venue hire starts at £5,000 for 25 guests, plus £200 for each additional guest, up to 100 guests (£10,000 for 50, £15,000 for 75, £20,000 for 100). Catering and drinks are priced separately by our approved caterers.

We host only one wedding at a time, so your day is never shared with another couple. Venue hire includes the grand rooms, the courtyard and the gardens, and the Coach House can be added for you and your closest family.

Yes. We hold a civil ceremony licence, with ceremonies for up to 100 guests in our grand rooms.

Yes

Venue hire ranges from £5,000 for 25 guests to £20,000 for 100 guests, plus catering and drinks from our approved caterers.

Wine and all other drinks are provided through our approved caterers, so we're unable to accept your own wine. Your caterer will be happy to help you choose drinks to suit your day.

Catering is provided by caterers from our approved list, who have use of the commercial kitchen.

Hire runs from 7am on the day, giving you plenty of time to set up and decorate. It is possible to arranged access the day before subject to a fee and availability.

Celebrations run until midnight.

Live bands and DJs are very welcome. As we have neighbours in the vicinity, we ask that music is kept at a non-excessive level, with quiet hours starting at 11pm. Live music and amplified sound should finish by 11pm, and the evening can wind down gently until midnight.

No

Yes

Yes subject to prior discussion

The Coach House sleeps 7 in 3 bedrooms and is perfect for getting ready on the morning of your wedding or for the bride and groom’s exclusive use as a honeymoon suite.

Yes. The Coach House sleeps 7 in 3 bedrooms, with reception rooms, dining area and kitchen, ideal for you and your closest family.

There's plenty nearby: the Travelodge in Greenhithe is two minutes away, and the Green View Hotel, Spring River Ebbsfleet, Premier Inn, Holiday Inn Express and four-star DoubleTree by Hilton are a short drive. For a spa stay, try the Mercure Brands Hatch Hotel & Spa. Greenhithe station is close by, and Ebbsfleet International (fast trains to St Pancras) is a few minutes' drive.

Our Sustainability Commitments

Ingress Abbey is easy to reach by train. Greenhithe station is close by, so guests can leave the car at home and travel to your celebration by rail.

Commitment to LGBTQIA+ Couples

Ingress Abbey warmly welcomes all couples. We are proud to be LGBTQIA+ friendly, and every wedding here is planned around you, your love story and the way you want to celebrate.