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Gray Manor Hotel Wedding Venue

A unique & chic countryside boutique wedding venue

Wiltshire, Cholderton


200 guests

14 reviews


Venue dressing

Full catering

Full bar

Dedicated wedding team

Master of ceremonies

Prices & Key Facts


Price Band: ££ - £££

We offer two options for pricing - venue hire only with the option to add catering, or a full all inclusive package. Per head cost already includes venue hire, as well as wedding breakfast, drinks package and evening catering.

Per Person Price Range: £65 - £95

Hire Price Range: £1,750 - £2,000


Guests for a ceremony: 120


Accommodation Rooms: 26

About Gray Manor Hotel

Gray Manor is a unique boutique wedding venue & hotel set in the heart of the countryside on the Hampshire/Wiltshire border. If you’re looking for the perfect beautiful & romantic location for your big day, look no further than Gray Manor.

Our team have a wealth of experience in the wedding industry.

With a full ceremony licence, you and your guests can arrive at the venue and relax and let us take care of the whole day for you.

Everyone from your wedding co-ordinator, who will assist you in the planning of your special day, to the chef who will create a menu to delight all of your guests, right down to the function manager who is on hand to run your day and make it more perfect then you ever thought possible, the whole team are here to make your day the most memorable of your lives.

Set in 5 acres of beautiful countryside and with a complete refurbishment throughout the venue, this is a truly special place to host your wedding reception.

We believe every wedding is special and unique and can help design a bespoke day, to make it a truly one off occasion, that yourself and all your guests will remember forever.

We have some great offers available and you will have the benefit of a perfect combination of a completely fresh beautiful setting, with a fully experienced team with vast knowledge of the wedding industry, all for an introductory price.

The Details

Type of Ceremony

Civil ceremony licensed

Humanist / Celebrant weddings

Receptions Only

Venue Setting



Venue Type

Boutique hotel

Exclusive use

Country House

Manor House

Small Hotel

Dry Hire Available

Land For Hire

Unique & Unusual

Additional Facilities

Honeymoon suite

Dance floor

Live music permitted

Discos permitted

Wedding coordinator

Onsite car parking

Licensed bar

Wedding packages

Bespoke weddings

Dog friendly

Good Disabled Access

Inhouse Toastmaster

Catering Options

Inhouse Caterers

BBQ / Hog Roasts


Special Guides for Brides Offers

Winter wedding package and late availability


Exclusive use of the venue. This includes your own private wedding breakfast room, bar with staff and our dance area, as well as breakfast room the following morning for any guests staying over** • Dedicated wedding coordinator – to help and guide you through the wedding planning process. • Master of ceremonies – Our function manager to ensure the smooth running of the whole day, including the announcing of speeches, cutting of the cake etc • Cake stand and knife • A complimentary night stay in our luxurious bridal suite including double jacuzzi with spa tv, twin showers, and an 8ft round bed, for the bride and groom on the night of their wedding to include breakfast. • Discounted room rates for guests • An arrival drink per person – bucks fizz* Upgrades available • 3 course wedding breakfast from our menu • Glass of house wine per person* Upgrades available • 4 x additional double en suite bedrooms • Prosecco toast drink* Upgrades available • Light Evening catering – bacon and sausage baps * Upgrades available • Complimentary use of candelabra centre pieces and star curtains • White table linen, napkins, glasses and crockery etc * WINTER WEDDINGS & LATE AVAILABILITY £3495 £3795 Saturdays in March and October Prime dates still available! 50 Adults Minimum Additional day adults £65.00 Additional kids £13.00 Additional evening guests £350 Ceremony £200

Terms and conditions

Available for selected dates throughout 2024, and all dates in Jan, Feb, Nov 2025 and Fridays and Sundays in March and Oct 2025 (excluding bank holidays)

Contact & Location

Gray Manor Hotel

Park house Cross, Cholderton, SP4 0EG, Wiltshire, United Kingdom


Yes all of our weddings are exclusive use.

Yes we are licenced and have a choice of two rooms for the ceremony.

Yes we now offer a venue hire only option, which allows you to bring in your own caterers

If there is no wedding the day before then you can have access then, otherwise then from as early as you require on the day of the wedding.


No we do not have noise restrictions



Yes and we offer this complimentary to all couples having their big day with us.

Yes there are other hotels local to us also.

Yes we have 26 bedrooms.

Customer Reviews

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