Cain Manor
Exclusive Use Barn-Style Wedding Venue in Surrey
Civil ceremony licence - inside and outside
Exclusive use for 24 hours
11 characterful bedrooms
Bottomless drinks reception (Pimm's & house Pr
Stunning landscaped gardens and countryside views
Harper Tasting Experience included
Business details last verified on 4th of February 2026 by the Guides for Brides team.
Prices & Capacity
Prices
Typical Price: £POA
Price Range: £3,750 - £10,500
Capacity
Ceremony: 123
Standing: 200
Seated Meal: 123
Accommodation
Sleeps: 29
About Cain Manor
A romantic Tudor manor house on the brow of a Hampshire hill, Cain Manor is the quintessential English country hideaway. With leafy grounds and beautiful views towards the Surrey Hills, it’s an idyllic setting for a country house wedding.
Cain Manor is an exclusive-use wedding venue in the rolling Surrey Hills, on the Surrey-Hampshire border, welcoming up to 123 for your ceremony and wedding breakfast, and up to 200 for your evening celebration.
With licensed ceremony spaces both inside and out, you choose the setting that feels right for you. Marry in the oak-beamed Music Room, with views across the Hampshire countryside, or if you've always imagined an outdoor ceremony, exchange rings on the Meadow Lawn.
After the last dance, retire to the Cain Suite while your nearest and dearest retreat to one of 11 bedrooms. The following morning, gather for a relaxed breakfast together, the perfect chance to relive the highlights before everyone heads home.
Your wedding includes the Harper Tasting Experience: a chef's selection of starters, mains and desserts, alongside a range of drinks, so you can make the perfect choices for your day. Exceptional food is at the heart of celebrations at Cain Manor. Harper Kitchens is led by Executive Chef Lionel Jouanet, who previously worked at The Dorchester, creating menus with a focus on flavour and seasonality.
We believe your wedding should feel wonderfully personal. You'll have your own online wedding planner, where you can manage details, track decisions, and keep everything in one place. You'll also have dedicated support from our in-house planning team, with meetings included throughout your journey from booking to the big day.
Download our brochure and pricing from our website, or – better still – come and see Cain Manor for yourself in person.
Cain Manor is part of Harper Weddings, a family-owned company that also runs Botleys Mansion in Surrey and Notley Abbey on the Buckinghamshire-Oxfordshire border. After over 25 years of hosting weddings, we know exactly how to create incredible wedding celebrations that reflect who you are as a couple. We’d love to do the same for you.
The Details
Type of Ceremony
Civil ceremony licensed
Humanist / Celebrant weddings
Outdoor Ceremonies
Venue Setting
Countryside
Town
Woodland
Remote
Venue Type
Stately home
Barn
Exclusive use
Country House
Manor House
Unique & Unusual
Intimate Venue
Outdoor / Garden
Historic
Additional Facilities
Outdoor ceremonies
Honeymoon suite
Dance floor
Live music permitted
Discos permitted
Wedding coordinator
Onsite car parking
Licensed bar
Inhouse Toastmaster
Wedding packages
Bespoke weddings
Good Disabled Access
Bridal Dressing Room
Dog friendly
Catering Options
Inhouse Caterers
Kosher
Special Guides for Brides Offers
WINTER WEDDINGS OFFER
Instructions
Dreaming of a magical winter wedding? Let us bring your vision to life with our exclusive Winter Wedding package for 70 of your nearest and dearest. With stunning seasonal charm, an abundance of romance, and a memorable atmosphere, our venue offers the perfect setting to celebrate your love. OCTOBER 2025 - MARCH 2026 Mon - Thur: £12,000 Fri - Sun: £13,995 For more information or to arrange a viewing, get in touch with the Cain Manor Team today!
Terms and conditions
Price based on exclusive use of the house and grounds for 24 hours, food and drinks package for 70 adult day guests, overnight accommodation (minimums apply) and complimentary DJ. Excludes New Years Eve. Terms and conditions apply.
WINTER WEDDINGS OFFER
Instructions
Dreaming of a magical winter wedding? Let us bring your vision to life with our exclusive Winter Wedding package for 70 of your nearest and dearest. With stunning seasonal charm, an abundance of romance, and a memorable atmosphere, our venue offers the perfect setting to celebrate your love. OCTOBER 2025 - MARCH 2026 Mon - Thur: £12,000 Fri - Sun: £13,995 For more information or to arrange a viewing, get in touch with the Cain Manor Team today!
Terms and conditions
Price based on exclusive use of the house and grounds for 24 hours, food and drinks package for 70 adult day guests, overnight accommodation (minimums apply) and complimentary DJ. Excludes New Years Eve. Terms and conditions apply.
Contact & Location
Cain Manor
Churt Road, Headley Down, GU35 8SR, Hampshire, United Kingdom
FAQs
Cain Manor is only available on an exclusive use basis. The venue is yours for 24 hours, but this can be extended subject to availability.
Yes, Cain Manor is licensed for civil ceremonies. Most couples choose to say their vows in the Music Room.
Yes, you can certainly have your wedding ceremony outdoors.
At Cain Manor we have our own team of dedicated chefs that will prepare your wedding breakfast. We cater for any cuisine and can discuss bespoke options for you also.
Yes, there is a beautiful Bridal Suite which is available for the duration of your exclusive use hire.
Yes, there are 13 rooms at Cain Manor
Yes, there are many options for local accommodation nearby.
Cain Manor is able to take a handful of venue-only bookings per year. Please speak to the team for more details and pricing.
Our Sustainability Commitments
When it comes to sustainability, we have made some real green initiatives over the years as we strive to be an eco-friendly wedding venue, without compromising on style and taste (some you won’t even notice the difference!). The chandeliers hung across our venues use LED bulbs, that not only create more energy efficient light, but a warm romantic glow that fills the entire room while you say your “I do’s” and/or host your wedding breakfast. The selected bulbs are long lasting and more durable, in comparison to alternatives, naturally creating less waste. Where possible our menus are sourced from local suppliers, effortlessly reducing our carbon footprint, including meat, poultry, dairy products, bread, fruit, and vegetables. The extensive list allows the in-house chefs to lovingly prepare most dishes using locally sourced produce, from canapés to roast dinners, down to the garnish used in drinks. Reusable, branded glass bottles are placed on the wedding breakfast tables, filled with our in-house still and sparkling water, reducing the use of plastic for every wedding held. An impact that may seem small, but quickly adds up with the number of weddings hosted each year. Waste from the events is split and collected as general waste, recyclable waste, and food waste, meaning the amount sent to landfill is as minimal as possible. The grounds across our venue are home to an array of plants and wildlife, and well maintained by a team of gardeners. Any fallen trees are cut into logs and stored to use in the open fires around the venues, or broken down into chippings, giving them a new use. The flowers beds are then scattered with wood chip, not only for an attractive soil cover (these are luxury wedding venues after all), but to provide a natural form of insulation, help conserve moisture and support growth.
Why Couples Recommend Cain Manor
Cain Manor is consistently praised by couples for providing a perfect and seamless wedding experience, largely thanks to its stunning venue and exceptional team. From the initial visit, couples feel welcomed and supported throughout a planning process that is described as stress-free and well-organised. The team is noted for being incredibly responsive, patient, and helpful, with a dedicated online planning tool frequently highlighted as an excellent resource for keeping everything on track. On the day, the staff’s professionalism, attentiveness, and genuine care create a flawless and effortless atmosphere, allowing couples to relax and enjoy their celebration without worry. Described as a 'well-oiled machine', the team ensures every detail is executed perfectly. Guests consistently rave about the outstanding quality of the food and drink, while the venue itself is celebrated for being breathtakingly beautiful and well-maintained, providing a warm, welcoming backdrop. Overall, couples feel the venue and its dedicated staff go above and beyond to make each wedding feel personal and special, resulting in a magical and unforgettable day that exceeds all expectations.
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