Tottington Manor Hotel
Tottington Manor Hotel: A boutique hotel and wedding venue in the South Downs National Park.
Ceremony, Breakfast, Party and Accommodation all on site
South Downs Countryside setting
AA Rosette Quality Wedding Breakfast
Exclusivity of Event and Hotel Space or of whole site.
Intimate and midweek weddings available
Wedding Concierge in advance and coordination on the day.
Business details last verified on 12th of October 2026 by the Guides for Brides team.
Prices & Capacity
Prices
Typical Price: £17,599
Price Range: £10,500 - £42,000
Capacity
Ceremony: 100
Standing: 100
Seated Meal: 100
Accommodation
Sleeps: 22
About Tottington Manor Hotel
At the foot of the South Downs National Park, Tottington Manor is a 17th-century country house set in the West Sussex landscape. The building has a unique history, having served as a secret regional headquarters for Auxiliary Units during the Second World War. Today, it operates as a boutique hotel and event venue with open views of the downs.
Tottington Manor offers couples a complete wedding experience in the heart of the Sussex countryside, with ceremony spaces, reception rooms, gardens, dining, accommodation and planning support all in one beautiful location.
The light and spacious South Downs Suite opens directly onto the private garden, terrace and lawn, allowing your day to flow naturally from ceremony to drinks reception, wedding breakfast and evening celebration. Couples can choose from indoor and outdoor ceremony options, round or long-table layouts and a range of dining styles to suit the atmosphere they want to create.
Wedding food is prepared by the AA Rosette chefs behind TERRA Restaurant, using carefully selected local and seasonal ingredients. Options can include elegant wedding breakfasts, relaxed summer dining, fine dining experiences, canapés, evening food and bespoke menus. Couples can also enjoy a dedicated food and wine tasting experience as part of their planning.
Tottington Manor has 12 individually styled bedrooms and suites, giving couples and their closest guests the convenience of staying at the venue. The couple can choose their preferred honeymoon suite, while getting-ready rooms provide space to prepare on the morning of the wedding. Guests can then meet again for breakfast the following day.
The experienced wedding team provides support throughout the planning journey and on the wedding day itself. Packages can include a dedicated wedding coordinator, Master of Ceremonies, exclusive use, ceremony spaces, private gardens, accommodation, food and drink, and late-night celebration options.
Tottington Manor is well placed for couples searching for wedding venues near Brighton, Worthing, Horsham, Burgess Hill and Haywards Heath. Visit the Weddings page on the Tottington Manor website to explore the venue, view current packages, download the wedding brochure or arrange a private viewing.
The Details
Type of Ceremony
Civil ceremony licensed
Humanist / Celebrant weddings
Receptions Only
Venue Setting
Countryside
Venue Type
Exclusive use
Country House
Manor House
Additional Facilities
Honeymoon suite
Dance floor
Live music permitted
Discos permitted
Wedding coordinator
Onsite car parking
Licensed bar
Wedding packages
Bespoke weddings
Catering Options
Inhouse Caterers
Champions of
Sustainability
LGBTQIA+ Weddings
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Contact & Location
Tottington Manor Hotel
Edburton Rd, BN5 9LJ, West Sussex, United Kingdom
Our Sustainability Commitments
Sustainability, local sourcing and responsible hospitality are important parts of how weddings are delivered at Tottington Manor. Set within the South Downs National Park, Tottington Manor is committed to protecting and celebrating its surrounding Sussex landscape. Wherever practical, the team works with local farmers, growers, vineyards and independent producers, helping to reduce food miles while supporting businesses and employment within the local community. Wedding menus are freshly prepared by our AA Rosette chefs using carefully selected seasonal ingredients. Couples can include Sussex produce, locally inspired canapés and Sussex sparkling wine within their celebration, creating a wedding breakfast with a genuine sense of place. Our approach also includes reducing unnecessary waste, managing food carefully and encouraging thoughtful menu planning. By hosting the ceremony, reception, evening celebration and overnight accommodation in one location, couples can reduce the need for guests to travel between several venues. Our 12 bedrooms allow close family and friends to stay on-site and enjoy breakfast together the following morning. Tottington Manor continues to review opportunities to improve energy efficiency, reduce environmental impact and make more responsible purchasing decisions across the hotel, restaurant and wedding operation. We also recognise that sustainability is about people as well as the environment. We aim to build long-term relationships with local suppliers, provide employment and training opportunities, support community organisations and create celebrations that positively contribute to the Sussex economy. Couples looking for a sustainable wedding venue in Sussex are encouraged to speak with our wedding team about seasonal menus, local drinks, supplier choices and practical ways to make their wedding more environmentally responsible.
Commitment to LGBTQIA+ Couples
At Tottington Manor, every couple deserves to feel welcomed, respected and completely comfortable celebrating their wedding in their own way. We warmly welcome LGBTQIA+ couples and are committed to providing an inclusive wedding experience from the first enquiry through to the wedding day itself. Your relationship, identity and family are yours to define. Our role is to listen, understand what matters to you and help create a celebration that feels authentic. We do not believe weddings should follow a fixed formula. Couples are free to choose the traditions they love, leave out those they do not and create new ones that better represent their relationship. This may include how you enter the ceremony, who accompanies you, how you are introduced, the language used during the day, the structure of speeches or the roles given to friends and family. Our wedding team will use your chosen names, titles and pronouns and will work with you to make sure communication, planning documents and announcements reflect your preferences. We understand that assumptions about traditional gender roles can make wedding planning uncomfortable, so we aim to use inclusive language and ask rather than presume. Families and wedding parties come in many forms. We welcome same-sex and LGBTQIA+ couples, transgender and non-binary guests, blended families, chosen families and celebrations that do not fit conventional expectations. Tottington Manor can accommodate a wide variety of ceremony styles, table arrangements, dining experiences and wedding-day formats. Whether you are planning an intimate gathering, an outdoor ceremony, a relaxed celebration or a larger exclusive-use wedding, our team will help shape the day around you. We are also committed to making Tottington Manor welcoming to guests with different access requirements, ages, cultures, faiths and dietary needs. Our chefs can discuss dietary requirements and allergen considerations, while our wedding team can help iden
Why Couples Recommend Tottington Manor Hotel
Couples who held their wedding at Tottington Manor consistently praise the entire team for creating a perfect, flawless, and unforgettable day. From the initial viewing through to the event itself, the staff are described as exceptionally helpful, supportive, and genuinely caring, making the entire planning process feel seamless and stress-free. Reviewers felt listened to and reassured, noting that the team went above and beyond to ensure their day was personal and exactly as they had envisioned. On the wedding day, the team’s professionalism and attention to detail ensure everything is beautifully organised and runs smoothly. The venue itself is frequently described as stunning, with incredible scenery and views that provide a beautiful backdrop for photographs. The food receives exceptional and consistent praise, with many couples mentioning that their guests specifically complimented the delicious, high-quality meals. Overall, reviewers highlight a warm, welcoming atmosphere where nothing is too much trouble, resulting in a dream wedding experience.
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